How to become the Master of Your Own Destiny

Have you decided what the agenda for your life is?

Maybe I'm going to sound a bit sure of myself here, but I know you need a Life Coach. How am I so sure, well that’s because I believe that everyone including me needs a Life Coach! Every one of us needs someone to be on our side, totally supportive and desirous for us to get what we want out of our lives.

Best friends can fulfill such a role, but often they don't have the knowledge of how to help and they're too bothered with getting their own stuff sorted out, to be of real help.

Those old chestnut questions of who's right, who's wrong, the grey areas are all conjecture and irrelevant. By focusing your attention on you, what it is you want out of your life; what you want to achieve, what you want to be remembered for and your purpose in being here. You can then start to take control and work towards your own goals instead of working for someone else's, which you most surely are doing, if you don't have your own agenda for your life!

Like everybody else I get paid for the work I do and although we all like to think we make some kind of a contribution to society, by helping people to self actualise and to bring out their talents, I believe that the Life Coach earns every penny he or she gets!

For example did you know that Adolf Hitler wanted to be an artist? If only his tutor had encouraged him to paint, told him he was good at it instead of telling him he was hopeless at portraits or landscapes, we may be admiring the great contribution Hitler had made to the world of art, rather than having to remember the tragedy that was the Third Reich?

You might say that you're beyond help; some people tell me that they are! :-) I don't believe them, but if you believe you are beyond help, then I realize that for you it’s true! I also went through a very negative phase in my life. when I look back it I see it was because I lacked both variety and certainty in my life, didn't feel significant or loved, and I felt that I wasn't growing or making a contribution. When you know what the agenda for your life is you can start taking steps, however small to getting your needs fulfilled and leaving the sadness behind.

Andrew Smith (aka The Musicians Life Coach)
UK Phone: 0800 085 8056
Intnl Phone: +44 (o)114 251 4951
email: andrew@gistli.co.uk
url: www.andrewsmithlifecoach.com