Wednesday, 10 December 2008

Which direction? Any direction? No direction?

I've heard people dismiss Self Development and Life Coaching with one statement, they say "I'm not goal orientated!" I always leave these conversations with respect for the individual’s right to chose how to live their lives, but also extremely sad.

You see if you are someone without a goal, then in my book you're someone without direction! If you're someone without direction for your life, my guess is that you're going nowhere! It seems so apparent to me that the reason why so many people are depressed is because they lack both focus and direction.

I also meet people who initially seem to be on my wavelength, they talk about all the things that they want to accomplish in their lives and they seem to have so many goals. On the face of it, they appear to have direction, but I leave those conversations feeling sad as well.

It is impossible to go in lots of different directions at the same time, so these people end up going nowhere too! What I'm saying is that yes, we need direction for our lives, but maybe like an airplane we need to pick one airport at a time to fly to or else we'll be just "up in the air" till we run out of fuel.

Personal Development and Life Coaching offer people the tools that will aid them on their journey to become the people they want to be, living the lives they truly desire.
You can experience a Life Coaching session with me for free by calling 0800 085 8056 that’s if you’re in the UK and if you’re living outside the UK then it’s +44 114 251 4951 or sending an email to "themusicianslifecoach@hotmail.co.uk"

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